Your child’s big hopeful eyes and the plea, “Can we PLEASE get a pet?” This often leads to a frantic googling of breeds in response, and the subsequent realisation that having a pet is indeed one of THE most rewarding experiences available to children.
It helps with raising children who are more empathetic, responsible and even with stronger immune systems. The tricky part though is finding the right pet!
We’ve put together this guide so that you, as a busy family, can navigate the exciting (and sometimes overwhelming!) world of family pets.
The Big Question: Are You Actually Ready?
Before your kids’ excitement sweeps the whole family into an impulsive pet shop visit, pause and ask yourself these honest questions:
- How much time can we realistically dedicate each day?
- Does anyone in the family have allergies?
- Do we rent, or are pets allowed in our home?
- Can we afford vet bills, food, and supplies?
- Who will care for the pet during school holidays or travel?
- What happens if the novelty wears off — who steps up?
If you can answer most of these confidently, you’re already in a great position. If a few left you unsure — that’s okay! It just means a little more planning before you commit.
Matching the Right Pet to Your Family
Not all pets are equal — especially when little ones are involved. Here’s a quick breakdown of popular family pets and what to expect with them:
Dogs — The Classic Family Companion
Best for: Active families with outdoor space and time to commit.
Dogs are loyal, loving and wonderful pets for kids, but they also need the most from you in terms of exercise, attention and care. Some popular family-friendly dog breeds include Golden Retrievers, Labradors, Beagles and Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, all of which are known to be gentle and patient with children of all ages.
Pro tip: If your kids are under 5, look for a breed known for calmness and tolerance — and always supervise interactions until your child understands how to handle animals gently.
Cats — Independent and Full of Personality
Best for: Busy families who want companionship without the full-time commitment of a dog.
Cats are also wonderfully low-maintenance compared to dogs. They groom themselves, don’t have to be taken for walks, and are perfectly happy to entertain themselves. Some breeds of cats, like Ragdolls and Birmans, are especially gentle and tolerant with young children.
Pro tip: Introducing a kitten to your household when children are young allows children to experience a unique bond with the animal to create beautiful memories for years to come.
Fish — The Perfect Starter Pet
Best for: Families testing the waters (pun intended!) or those with limited space.
If you aren’t ready for a fur-baby, fish are a fantastic way to introduce responsibility. They are a lot less commitment, but still require feeding and care. Watching fish swim around in a tank is also fantastic and mesmerising entertainment!
Guinea Pigs & Rabbits — Small But Full of Love
Best for: School-age kids who want a hands-on pet they can cuddle.
Guinea pigs are fantastic! They’re social and gentle and rarely bite, so they’re good with kids 6 and up. They love interaction and are super cute when they squeak with delight when they hear your voice.
Rabbits are the same, and they can be litter trained. They can roam the house. You can get two of the same kind of pet, and they’re even happier!
Turning Pet Care Into a Learning Adventure
One of the greatest gifts pets give children is the experience of caring for something other than themselves. Here’s how to make the most of it:
- Assign age-appropriate tasks: Toddlers can help fill water bowls; school-age kids can take on feeding duties; teens can handle grooming and vet trip preparation.
- Create a care chart: A simple checklist on the fridge helps kids feel ownership and builds a positive routine.
- Involve them in vet visits: Understanding that animals need healthcare — just like people — builds empathy and respect for living things.
- Talk about feelings: When pets are unwell or pass away, use it as a gentle opportunity to discuss emotions, loss, and love.
- Celebrate pet milestones: First birthday? Anniversary of adoption? Make it fun — kids love rituals and it reinforces the family bond with the pet.
Preparing Your Home for a New Pet
Bringing a new pet home is exciting — but a little preparation goes a long way. Think of it like baby-proofing, but for a different kind of small creature!
- Secure hazardous areas: Pools, balconies, and gaps in fences need to be addressed before a curious pup or cat arrives.
- Store chemicals and medications safely: Animals can get into things surprisingly quickly.
- Designate a pet zone: A cosy corner with a bed, toys, and a water bowl helps a new pet feel safe and settled.
- Stock up on essentials: Food, bowls, bedding, a carrier, and basic first aid supplies before day one.
- Plan the first night: New pets are often anxious — having a calm, quiet space ready helps them settle faster.
Keeping Kids and Pets Safe Together
Young children and animals need a little guidance to build a safe and happy relationship. A few golden rules to teach your kids from day one:
- Always ask before patting a pet — especially one you don’t know.
- Never disturb a pet that is eating, sleeping, or unwell.
- Use a calm, gentle voice and slow movements around animals.
- Never pull tails, ears, or fur — ever.
- Wash hands after playing with or touching any animal.
- If a pet growls or hisses, give them space — they’re asking for a break.
However, it’s highly recommended to supervise all interactions between children under 10 and pets, no matter how gentle the animal.
The Bottom Line
Every parent wants their kid to have as many happy memories as possible – and owning a pet can contribute to precisely that. There’s a special kind of love from our furry friends that teaches kids life lessons like responsibility and empathy.
Whether you fancy a golden retriever or a goldfish named Bubbles, the right pet at the right time is magical. If you are planning to welcome a new family member, make sure you’re stocked with all the essentials from enrichment toys to sensory play sets and more.